Sex Massage London – Means SEX right?
Tantric Massage can be misleading, it is a loose term that can mean almost anything from one place to the next. Tantric massage is sometimes called Sex Massage but in general, it does not involve sexual intercourse, and it does involve sexual stimulation, but these are still simply generalities, and if you are looking for something specific (or afraid of something specific) you should get clear and specific about what you want. A sex massage, sexy massage, sensual massage, erotic massage are all terms used interchangeably to refer to a tantric massage.
Many tantric massage London sites like Diamond has a list of tantric massages available, sexy massage is a popular search term, along with sex massage London, Tantric Massage London, Erotic Massage London, Nuru Massage London….the list goes on. If you look, the wording is erotic and sensual. It’s not actually a massage that leads to sex, but it may well lead to arousal and climax because the masseuse will pay attention to your erorgenous zones and that does include your genitals.
Sex Massage – but I want to orgasm!
Tantric massage in its truest form is about a sacred approach to sex and sexuality but that does not mean it’s not fun and highly arousing. Genuine tantric principles of consciousness, presence, mindfulness, breath, and touch are employed by a trained tantric masseuse. She can channel and work with you sexual energy and our tantric massages all include a level of heightened sexual touch as it is most often a part of tantric healing.
Any experienced tantric masseuse is used to hearing requests for happy endings or for extra services involving sexual intercourse. From the beginning of your massage you are free to work and talk with your masseuse about what you want and expect from the massage. Be prepared to talk openly but sex is not part of the program, for genuine tantric massage we know it’s important to be crystal clear about intentions and boundaries.
When we visit you on an outcall massage, the massive comes ready with everything she needs to create a tantric massage space in your hotel or private residence. If you choose to visit a tantric masseuse then her luxury apartment will be a tantric space and be clean and welcoming.
Simple, clear and unambiguous boundaries are an essential part of your tantric massage. Every tantric masseuse should give you the opportunity to set your boundaries, and be able to work creatively and effectively within those boundaries, no matter what they are. If you don’t like a smell, a taste or a touch, or you have an injury then work with your masseuse and make sure she is aware, your comfort is of paramount importance.
Maybe you do not want the practitioner to use oil… our masseuses do as the body to body contact is smoother with it but its always unscented, you see, we are discreet about the smallest of details.
- Touching. What touch do you expect, do you like, do your dislike? What touch are you not ready for? Are there any injuries or tender places that should be named? Feel free to set this out at the beginning and your tantric masseuse will pay close attention to your body during the massage. Feel free to make appreciative noises to guide her.
- Intensity of touch. Some people have extreme sensitivity to light touch: it is unbearable. Others cannot abide intense touch and need a firmness to it. Tell your masseuse, she is there to please you and guide you.
- Nude Massage. Tantric massages are usually naked massages and tantric or sensual healing with intimate touch, with Diamond Tantric Massages clothes come off for both practitioner and client to eliminate all artificiality and all barriers to contact.
- Gloves. There are different ideas around the use of gloves, ourTantric masseuses will use gloves for basework (internal anal touch) but not for other intimate touch as gloves are a barrier and restrict out ability to feel energy clearly, why would you not want to be able to engage the senses and feel all the contours of the body with your hands and fingers?
- Environment. Do you have preferences for music, lighting, scent, incense, oils, temperature? A skilled tantric massage London masseuse will be able to accommodate your preferences, and be prepared to work around any preference you share.
Sex Massage – Tantric And Erotic.
On the whole, eroticism does not imply sex. Yes, of course sex can be erotic, but it often simply isn’t, or not as much as our brains think it is going to be. That’s why many of our clients explore the numerous benefits of tantric massage rather than the robotic and unsatisfying experience of paying for sex.
This is because you can envelop yourself in a sensual and sexy experience knowing that sex is not on the menu but enjoying being worshipped by a beautiful woman is a simply stunning alternative. Unrushed and erotic beyond measure. There are plenty of erotic things that can and do exist with no necessity of sex. For example, exotic dancers are precisely the ones who don’t then moonlight as prostitutes, and their acts can often be more erotic because of that. It’s not just them taking off their clothes, its the way they do it, in fact that level of striptease is tantric.
Similarly, a tantric massage (or any other actually erotic massage, as in not being a simple and base “run and tug”) is designed with eroticism in mind, not in resulting in sex. It can be a great conclusion to a tantric massage, but it’s not somehow incomplete if it doesn’t go there. Yes, for many clients, absolutely then a relief or climax is the end result. That’s why many still jokingly call it a Happy Ending Massage. Sexual release and orgasm can and do occur without the need for penetrative sex.
So in answer to the question our receptionists are asked nightly, “Is this full service”, not in the way you think. If you want sex and simply sex, then you need to think about escort services. If you want an intimate and erotic time with a skilled and beautiful masseuse then a tantric massage has your name on it.